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KMR Counselling Blog
Practical tips for everyday mental health wellbeing, parenting and communication.




Using CBT to set goals
Goals are an important part of measuring progress, if we have no goals, we have no direction and cannot measure our progress. If we take...
Jul 23, 2024


Psychological sigh for inner calm
Fun fact: The average person sighs approximately once every 5 minutes. That’s 12 sighs per hour and 192 hours per day during our waking...
Mar 2, 2024


Building self-esteem
When I hear people talking about self-esteem, they talk about other people damaging it. The things other people say and the the...
Feb 9, 2024


When life doesn't go our way
When trauma happens, it is very easy to go down a rabbit hole of despair. There are a few tricks to use when we realise that this is what...
Sep 1, 2023


Complicated grief and losing a parent
Parent-child relationships are often strained and fraught with conflict, sometimes to the point where you become estranged from a parent...
Feb 6, 2023


85 years of research into happiness
Four simple Ways to Make Yourself Really Happy in 10 Minutes. An 85-year-long study reveals the secret to long-term happiness. Should you...
Jan 18, 2023


What is Anxiety
Anxiety When an individual faces potentially harmful or worrying triggers, feelings of anxiety are not only normal but necessary for...
Jan 4, 2023


The art of dealing with rejection
Rejection is an almost unavoidable aspect of being a human being. No one ever succeeds in love or in life without facing rejection. We...
Oct 30, 2022


The physical side of grief
The physical side of grief is something that is not often spoken about or understood. Grief is a powerful experience which can cause...
Oct 21, 2022


Writing to ease your mind
When something bad happens, we often relive the event over and over in our heads, rehashing the pain. This process is called rumination;...
Oct 15, 2022


Signs your communication skills need improvement
Most people lack relational communication skills. No one was taught how to communicate effectively, so it makes sense that it's a...
Oct 15, 2022


Learning not to catastrophise
As a person who used to catastrophise, and still does to some extent, I understand the times when we see life as bad rather than having a...
Jun 6, 2022


Coping with grief and loss
Loss is defined as: "the disruption of an attachment - an attachment to other people, to body parts, to inanimate objects, to fantasies,...
May 26, 2022


Do I need counselling?
Contrary to popular misconception, you don’t have to be “crazy,” desperate, or on the brink of a meltdown to go to therapy . At the same...
Oct 29, 2021


How to feel happier in your life
If you want to feel happier in your life, it's easier to reach that goal by treating others with kindness rather than buying something...
Oct 6, 2021


Anxiety and our thoughts
Why The Anxious Mind Is Afraid Of Itself We live in a polarized society that likes to slap a label on everything — black or white, rich...
Sep 30, 2021


Techniques for dealing with anxiety during Covid
As we are in our second lockdown Feeling anxious in certain situations can help us avoid danger, it’s how we’ve evolved to keep ourselves...
Sep 30, 2021


Separation to attachment
Separation anxiety and your child. Separation anxiety is a given in most children when returning to school. For some children, it is big...
Apr 21, 2021
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