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KMR Counselling Blog
Practical tips for everyday mental health wellbeing, parenting and communication.


Children see, children do
When you think about your children's future, remember that you are their main role model. Be who you want them to be and they will be who...
Apr 25, 2022


The value of Self-talk for children
Teaching children about the power of self-talk. We as adults know about the power of self-talk. That ability to see ourselves in a good...
Oct 5, 2021


When your child has problems at school
A good relationship with your child’s teacher and school is a great starting point for handling any problems that come up at school. You...
Aug 25, 2021


Catch what you say to your child before harm is done
Reframing our language around children. When you are trying to discipline your child, it is always good to remind yourself that your...
May 11, 2021


Self and emotional regulation in children
When younger children feel overwhelmed by their emotions, their brain goes into survival mode and they act purely on impulse. As adults,...
Apr 28, 2021


Mental health versus mental disorder in children
Mental Health versus Mental Illness Research into parents and their knowledge of mental health issues in children has revealed the...
Apr 21, 2021


Being brave star charts for children
BRAVE Star charts and anxious behaviour. One helpful and fun way you can help with your child’s anxious behaviours is to set up a reward...
Apr 21, 2021


Separation to attachment
Separation anxiety and your child. Separation anxiety is a given in most children when returning to school. For some children, it is big...
Apr 21, 2021


Raising boys
Boys and rough and tumble behavior. Boys are genetically different to girls in their behavior. There is more and more evidence from...
Apr 15, 2021


Teaching children to focus
Learning to focus and pay attention is a skill like any other. Some children are good at it, some need help. Remember, it can be...
Mar 2, 2021


Helping children stuck in loss
What parents can do to help children with grief and loss. People cope in all sorts of ways with grief and loss, and children are no...
Feb 19, 2021


Eliminating children's negative self-talk
All of us as humans struggle with negative self-talk. That little voice in our head that tells us we “can’t do this”, we are “not good at...
Feb 19, 2021


Sleep and anxiety in children
Preschoolers (ages 3-5 years) generally need between 10-13 hours of sleep per night, and school-age children (ages 6-13 years) need...
Feb 19, 2021


How do I know if my child has a problem?
It is normal for a child to experience a whole range of emotions from rage to happiness. How do I know when there is a problem? You...
Dec 26, 2020


Transition to high school and dealing with the teen years
Transition to high school Transition to high school can be stressful for children and parents alike. For all those new parents to high...
Dec 23, 2020


Creating confident adults
Our children are the lights of our lives. We all start off as parents envisioning nothing but success, love and happiness for them....
Dec 23, 2020




Anxiety cannot always be explained, it just is
Asking "why are you anxious" can be difficult to answer especially for children. The way anxiety works, our reasoning goes out of the...
Nov 10, 2020


Expected versus unexpected behaviours in children
Historically there has been a tendency to think we can teach children social behaviour by setting behavioural expectations and then...
Nov 9, 2020
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