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KMR Counselling Blog
Practical tips for everyday mental health wellbeing, parenting and communication.




Building self-esteem
When I hear people talking about self-esteem, they talk about other people damaging it. The things other people say and the the...
Feb 9, 2024


Facing the challenges of Autism in children
Knowing how to help a child with Autism is one of a parent's greatest challenges. Autism is an incurable condition, and a child cannot...
Apr 28, 2023


Complicated grief and losing a parent
Parent-child relationships are often strained and fraught with conflict, sometimes to the point where you become estranged from a parent...
Feb 6, 2023


85 years of research into happiness
Four simple Ways to Make Yourself Really Happy in 10 Minutes. An 85-year-long study reveals the secret to long-term happiness. Should you...
Jan 18, 2023


What is Anxiety
Anxiety When an individual faces potentially harmful or worrying triggers, feelings of anxiety are not only normal but necessary for...
Jan 4, 2023


Learning not to catastrophise
As a person who used to catastrophise, and still does to some extent, I understand the times when we see life as bad rather than having a...
Jun 6, 2022


Children see, children do
When you think about your children's future, remember that you are their main role model. Be who you want them to be and they will be who...
Apr 25, 2022


The value of Self-talk for children
Teaching children about the power of self-talk. We as adults know about the power of self-talk. That ability to see ourselves in a good...
Oct 5, 2021


When your child has problems at school
A good relationship with your child’s teacher and school is a great starting point for handling any problems that come up at school. You...
Aug 25, 2021


Catch what you say to your child before harm is done
Reframing our language around children. When you are trying to discipline your child, it is always good to remind yourself that your...
May 11, 2021


Self and emotional regulation in children
When younger children feel overwhelmed by their emotions, their brain goes into survival mode and they act purely on impulse. As adults,...
Apr 28, 2021


Mental health versus mental disorder in children
Mental Health versus Mental Illness Research into parents and their knowledge of mental health issues in children has revealed the...
Apr 21, 2021


Being brave star charts for children
BRAVE Star charts and anxious behaviour. One helpful and fun way you can help with your child’s anxious behaviours is to set up a reward...
Apr 21, 2021


Separation to attachment
Separation anxiety and your child. Separation anxiety is a given in most children when returning to school. For some children, it is big...
Apr 21, 2021


Raising boys
Boys and rough and tumble behavior. Boys are genetically different to girls in their behavior. There is more and more evidence from...
Apr 15, 2021


Teaching children to focus
Learning to focus and pay attention is a skill like any other. Some children are good at it, some need help. Remember, it can be...
Mar 2, 2021


Helping children stuck in loss
What parents can do to help children with grief and loss. People cope in all sorts of ways with grief and loss, and children are no...
Feb 19, 2021


Sleep and anxiety in children
Preschoolers (ages 3-5 years) generally need between 10-13 hours of sleep per night, and school-age children (ages 6-13 years) need...
Feb 19, 2021
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